Proof of True Love with Marriage, Not with Chocolate

The day awaited by a young couple who deceived is Valentine's Day which is claimed to be the day of love and love. Even though it has been widely spread about the true story about the origin of Valentine's Day. Of course the law of celebrating is clear, namely HARAM.

It is precisely the young woman who is more deceived by power, the young man proves love by just a surprise sweet romantic expression wrapped in poetic words, then the framed hand filled with chocolate and a piece of the sentence that makes young women float into the sky of dreams. Whereas the young woman was deceived by proving love with virginity or whatever, that should be offered to her halal husband later.

Proof of love only by marriage

If there is acknowledging to love but not marry or immediately marry then all that is just love is incarnate in the eyes of a fantasy. Even though the diumbar is a romantic poem that defeats the melodious chirping of birds, even though the touch of affection that is caressed beats the droplets of dew and even though the hand given is a series of beautiful bun jasmine. Everything without marriage is semi-fake and even trickery.

Why? because people who know the essence of proof of love say the proof of love is marriage. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said,

لم ير للمتحا بين مثل النكاح

"It is unknown [which is more useful] for two people who love each other such as marriage"

The expert heart ulama Ibn Qayyim Al-Jauziyah rahimahullahu said, "really the doctors and others agreed in the view of the people who were mindful about medicine, that the cure for this disease [love sickness] was the meeting of two souls and the attachment of two bodies [namely marriage] ".

Again, proof of love is only by getting married!

Premature love and love of wax melt
Some humans are deceived by premature love, love that has not been timed to be revealed from the sky. But lust seizes and pulls away so that he comes down to train, a makeshift love that is forced to survive. Or maybe it will disappear in a few moments because he was born before the deadline which is marriage.

Love is a lifelong love, even though the bond still has no knot and is not clear. Love is thought to be sincere to oneself and his soul even though he is only in love with beauty, only love of wealth and position. When beauty competes vigorously against age, beauty slowly gives up. When you lose your beauty, you lose your love, where's the first seduction, where's the first hand, where's the sloppy romance. Has it melted faster than the molten candle that burns away?

They say love for life? Even though it's true, if age has become a matter of death angels, then end love, just become a history in the world that people will soon forget because the next generation episode is waiting. Because everything in this world will disappear, including love that is only stuck with the ideals of the end of the world. Allah Almighty said,

كُلُّ مَنْ عَلَيْهَا فَانٍ

"Everything on the earth will perish." (QS. Ar-Rahman: 26)

And it could be that if people who love each other in the world without a foundation of love for Allah will become hostile to each other in the Hereafter, Allah Almighty says,

الْأَخِلَّاءُ يَوْمَئِذٍ بَعْضُهُمْ لِبَعْضٍ عَدُوٌّ إِلَّا الْمُتَّقِينَ

"The people who (during the world) loved each other on that day became part of the enemy for some others except those who were devoted" (QS. Az Zukhruf: 67).

How come women and people who are looking for love, is this the love you are looking for? A day old love? Or last night on Valentine's night?