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Law Ask for Photos of Women Who Are Already Fiance Question: I officially preached my uncle's daughter. The period of preaching in our place is long, as you know. Then I did safar, I asked him after I left Safar, to send the picture. Apparently he really sent his picture to me. Am I sinful because of this action? If yes, what is the point? Shaykh Bin Baz's answer rahimahullah: Yes, you can't ask for photos. And you must repent to God for this action. Repent to God with honest repentance, regretting what you did and determined not to repeat it. You have to tear (or delete) the photo. The woman may not send photos to you. Likewise, you may not send photos to him. What may be, you see it directly (nazhar) if you have preached it or wished to preach it. Not why you see it directly. Because the Apostle sallallaahu ‘alaihi wasallam ordered this, he said, انظر إليها ، ألا تنظر إليها "Look at him. Don't you want to see it first ?! " That is to s...

Marriage sirri or "marriage‘ urfi / zawaj ‘urfi" has two meanings or definitions as they spread in society. 1. Marriage without guardians and witnesses This is NOT legal because the marriage conditions are not fulfilled 2. Marriage by fulfilling the perfect terms and conditions, but not too widely disseminated, only a few people or groups who know and this marriage is not recorded in the KUA SAH's strongest legal opinion, but sinful because it is not obedient to government regulations / waliyul ‘amr The following discussion: 1. Marriage without guardians and witnesses This is NOT SAH because there is no legal requirement for marriage For example, two lovebirds that were not approved by both parents ran together and then married without guardians or without witnesses Marriage is not valid because of marriage there must be a guardian. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, ﻻَ ﻧِﻜَﺎﺡَ ﺇِﻻَّ ﺑِﻮَﻟِﻲٍّ ، ﻭَﺍﻟﺴُّﻠْﻄَﺎﻥُ ﻭَﻟِﻲُّ ﻣَﻦْ ﻻَ ﻭَﻟِﻲَّ ﻟَﻪُ...

Question: A man was given a trial by God in the form of silence and an idiot, but he wanted to get married. How did he do the marriage contract that would be permitted by the Shari'a? Please note this person cannot read and cannot write. Answer: Mute people can get married with understood signals, as he did when he wanted to eat, wanted to drink and all his activities, because the signals understood in these activities occupied a speaking role for him. Wabillahi at-taufiq, washallallahu ‘ala Nabiyyina Muhammadin wa alihi wa shahbihi wasallam.

Connecting a husband and wife's body is charity and is a good rewarded. From Abu Dhar Al-Ghifari, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, وَفِى بُضْعِ أَحَدِكُمْ صَدَقَةٌ ». قالوا يا رسول الله أيأتى أحدنا شهوته ويكون له فيها أجر قال «أرأيتم لو وضعها فى حرام أكان عليه فيها وزر فكذلك إذا وضعها فى الحلال كان له أجر» "The relationship between you (with your wife or slave) is alms. The friends then asked the Apostle sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, ai O Messenger of Allah, did we come to our wife with lust get reward?’ He replied, ‘Isn't it if you have intercourse with the unclean, you get sin. Therefore if you have sex with the lawful ones, of course you will get a reward. '' [1] An-Nawawi rahimahullah explains that intercourse / jima 'husband and wife provide very many benefits both in the world and in the hereafter. In the hereafter get merit, while in the world get various goodness including goodness of physical and psychological health. He sai...

People say, love is blind. Heart viruses in the name of love turned out to have claimed many victims. We often hear a teenager who is determined to commit suicide because his love is one-sided. The household ark can be destroyed if there is forbidden love in it. There is also love that is both destructive and shameful, which is to love the same sex. Love for others is dominated by lust called al ‘isyq. If lust obeys this love will be entangled in love drunk. This is a disease. If it is not fortified by the right rules of Shari'a, this love can become a forbidden love. Love sickness can affect anyone. Not only young people, even those who are married. Here are 10 therapies for people who are in love. (1). Married If it is possible for people who are drunk to reach their love for love with the provisions of the Shari'a, then this is the most important therapy. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: يا معشر الشباب, من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج, فإنه أغض للبصر...

Difference "Hate Polygamy Shari'a" and "Hate Polygamy" Maybe someone said: "Who are women who don't hate polygamy? If you don't hate it means she's not a woman. " Some people claim that surely all women hate polygamy, which is hate (dislike) when their husband does polygamy, because all women want to be the only heart in the place of their husband. This needs to be explained that the difference between "hate polygamy sharia" and "hate polygamy": 1. "Hate polygamy shari'a" that is hate against this Shari'a and consider polygamy Shari'a not in accordance with human benefit and bring damage to the household and damage to society. 2. "Hate polygamy" that is hate which is a woman's instincts of jealousy, because this creates a sense of heaviness for the woman herself when she is polygamous. 1. Hate Sharia polygamy This is echoed and promoted by hypocrites who do not like t...

When Temptation Gains When a husband gets a woman's exam, such as seeing things that can arouse his lust, then the guidance of Islam is to immediately go to his wife and vent on the lawful so that his mind becomes calm again. This is an example from the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, he saw something and immediately went to his wife, Zainab and afterwards he met with his friends and said: إن المرأة تقبل فى صورة شيطان وتدبر فى صورة شيطان فإذا أبصر أحدكم امرأة فليأت أهله فإن ذلك يرد ما فى نفسه "Surely women come in the form of demons, and go in the form of demons. If one of you sees a woman who is amazing (accidentally), then she should come to (intercourse with) his wife, because it will reject something (in the form of lust) contained in him "(Narrated by Muslim no. 1403). When Wife Gets Obstacles However, sometimes wives are menstruating and their husbands only have one wife. Can he use his wife's hand? The wife used her responsibility until her ...

Once, (Friend) Jabir bin Abdillah and the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam in a war. When he returned from the war, he was left behind from the group due to his exhausted camel. The Prophet came to him and asked, "Is this Jabir?" Jabir replied, "Yes Rasulullah." "What problem is Jabir?" The Prophet asked again. Jabir replied, "Ontaku was slow and tired so I was left behind." Then the Prophet stabbed Jabir's camel with his staff while saying, "Get on!" Jabir went up, and when the signal accelerated, he held him so that he did not overtake the Prophet. "Have you married Jabir?" Asked the Prophet. "Yes," answered Jabir. "Virgin or widow?" The Prophet again asked. "Widow". Jabir answered later. The Prophet asked, "Why not just marry a virgin? You can play with him and he can play with you too. " Jabir replied, "I have many female sisters. I married a widow so...

Question: Can I read (sex stories) or see pornographic images before having sex with a husband and wife, with the aim of arousing lust, because I do not get delights in the intimate relationship of husband and wife except in that way. Answer: You may not see pornographic images and sex activities, (though) with reasons to be able to stimulate and arouse lust for intimate relationships (husband and wife). In the act there is an act of witnessing sin (without denying it, pent.), Seeing the nakedness of others, and seeing the adultery of Allah and His Messenger sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam (very) hate. So (in the case above), seeing sex scenes is not allowed at all. As for the problem of reading sex stories, then this (is also a bad thing, however) is worse than seeing those pornographic photos. But even so, reading sex stories is part of Satan's steps. And the sex stories are not empty of (two possibilities), 1. It could be told about (sex) male and female adultere...

After a review of the book review "Fikh Contemporary Women's Health", a woman who was estimated to be close to 60 years old asked specifically directly, "What is the law for using lubricants to treat?" The answer is: OK As long as it is not medically harmful. The law of origin of world affairs is permissible as the following fiqhiyyah rules. الأصل في الأشياء الإباحة "The law of origin (world affairs) is permissible" Likewise the fatwa from Shabakah Islamiyah in the care of Sheikh Abdullah Al-Faqih. Question: ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﺣﺮﺝ ﻣﻦ ﺍﺳﺘﻌﻤﺎﻝ ﺯﻳﺖ ﺍﻟﺰﻳﺘﻮﻥ ﻓﻲ ﺩﻫﻦ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﻟﻠﻌﻤﻠﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺠﻨﺴﻴﺔ ﺑﻐﺮﺽ ﺗﺴﻬﻴﻞ ﺍﻹﻳﻼﺝ ﻓﺄﺭﺟﻮ ﺍﻹﻓﺎﺩﺓ؟ "Can you not use olive oil as a lubricating oil on the genitals to facilitate conjugal relations?" ﻓﺈﻧﻪ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﺍﺳﺘﻌﻤﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺰﻳﺖ ﻋﻦ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﺩﻫﻦ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺝ ﺑﻪ ﺑﻞ ﻋﻤﻠﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﺎﻉ ، ﺑﻞ ﻗﺪ ﻳﺴﺘﺤﺐ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺗﺴﻬﻞ ﻋﻤﻠﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﺎﻉ ﻭﻻ ﻳﺘﺄﻟﻢ ﺃﺣﺪ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺟﻴﻦ. ﻫﺬﺍ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺣﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻋﻴﺔ ، ﻭﺃﻣﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﻮﻉ - ﺯﻳﺖ ﺍﻟﺰﻳﺘﻮﻥ - ﻳﺴﺄﻝ ﻓﻴﻪ ﺃﻫﻞ ﺍﻻﺧﺘﺼﺎﺹ ، ﻭﻫﻞ ﺍﺳﺘﻌﻤﺎﻟﻪ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﺎﻉ ﻳﻀﺮ ...

This practice, there are several cases of the spread of photos or videos of artists or community leaders when having an affair / adultery, they intend to capture it as a private collection and an additional sensation. Certainly a big problem for them. Well, what if a husband and wife want to capture this? Lajnah Daimah [Saudi Arabian Law] was asked about this, "What is the law to portray the intimate relationship of husband and wife in the form of jima 'and the foreplay? and it is known that there are fatwas from some people who attribute themselves to science - in some countries that allow them to maintain / keep them on tapes / files so they don't leak to other people. They answered: ج: تصوير ما يحصل من الزوجين عند المعاشرة الزوجية محرم شديد التحريم; لعموم أدلة تحريم التصوير, ولما يفضي إليه تصوير المعاشرة الزوجية خصوصا من المفاسد والشرور التي لا تخفى, مما لا يقره شرع ولا عقل ولا خلق, فالواجب الابتعاد عن ذلك, والحرص على صيانة العرض والعورات ، فإن ذلك من الإيمان ...

Indeed Islamic law is a perfect religion, when ordering something there must be benefits and mashalahat. When prohibiting something, there must be danger and harm in that matter. One of the orders is to get married soon for those who are capable and prohibited from lingering without lounging. Among the benefits of immediate marriage is someone's lust will be channeled with halal and this is beneficial for their health, both physical and psychological health. The Prophet sallallaahu 'alahi wa sallam ordered his followers to get married immediately and be able to channel the lusts of the faithful and call this halal spirit as alms. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, وَفِى بُضْعِ أَحَدِكُمْ صَدَقَةٌ ». قالوا يا رسول الله أيأتى أحدنا شهوته ويكون له فيها أجر قال «أرأيتم لو وضعها فى حرام أكان عليه فيها وزر فكذلك إذا وضعها فى الحلال كان له أجر» "The relationship between you (with your wife or slave) is alms. The friends then asked the Apostle sallallaahu...

No single or bachelor in heaven is proof that marriage is a great pleasure and one of the sources of happiness and tranquility in the world. All the pleasures felt in the world will certainly be felt in heaven with a comparison of pleasure that cannot be imagined. This also proves that taking too long alone is not a pleasant thing, because Islam suggests getting married soon to those who are capable and there is a prohibition to live single and have no desire to get married. Hopefully the unmarried ones are hastened to get a mate / shalihah match. In heaven there is no single / bachelor because everyone will have a partner. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, وما في الجنة أعزب "And in heaven there are no singles / singles" [Muslim] Faithful couples will be paired again in heaven and with faith, they will enter heaven together to become eternal eternal partners in heaven. Allah says, ﺟَﻨَّﺎﺕُ ﻋَﺪْﻥٍ ﻳَﺪْﺧُﻠُﻮﻧَﻬَﺎ ﻭَﻣَﻦ ﺻَﻠَﺢَ ﻣِﻦْ ﺀَﺍﺑَﺂﺋِﻬِﻢْ ﻭَﺃَ...

Married Again Because He Was Left Long Fatwa of Syaikhul Islam Ibn Taimiyah rahimahullah Question: He was asked about the problem of men who left his wife for six years and did not leave him a living. Then his wife remarried another man, and the man had sex with him. Then her first husband came. What is the second marital status? Answer: If the first marriage has been fasakh (canceled by qadhi, ed.) Because her husband did not provide for her, and her prayer period was finished, then the woman married the second time the marriage was valid. But if the second marriage before the first marriage is finished, then the second marriage is canceled.

The day awaited by a young couple who deceived is Valentine's Day which is claimed to be the day of love and love. Even though it has been widely spread about the true story about the origin of Valentine's Day. Of course the law of celebrating is clear, namely HARAM. It is precisely the young woman who is more deceived by power, the young man proves love by just a surprise sweet romantic expression wrapped in poetic words, then the framed hand filled with chocolate and a piece of the sentence that makes young women float into the sky of dreams. Whereas the young woman was deceived by proving love with virginity or whatever, that should be offered to her halal husband later. Proof of love only by marriage If there is acknowledging to love but not marry or immediately marry then all that is just love is incarnate in the eyes of a fantasy. Even though the diumbar is a romantic poem that defeats the melodious chirping of birds, even though the touch of affection that is c...

Some Muslim women have added their names behind their names after marriage. This is not permitted by the Shari'a because there are several considerations: It could be that humans who do not know that the last name of the man (her husband) is his father while Islam is very guarding the nasab and prevents as much as possible the exchange of nasab. As a rule: سد الذرائع "Closing various ways in the direction of evil" It could be that the current generation knows that it is her husband's name, but later generations will be confused. If this is a custom and non-Muslim custom that is their characteristic, we should not join in. It should be a reflection of the women: "Your father is more entitled to put his name behind your name than your husband" This is the teaching in Islam which is attributing the child to his legitimate father and grandfather. Here are some fatwas related to this. 1. Fatwa of Al-Lajnah Ad-Da`imah ﺍﻟﺴﺆﺍﻝ: 3 ﺷﺎﻉ ﻓﻲ ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟ...

Q: A man commits adultery with a woman, then this man marries him with a syar'i contract. Is this marriage valid? With a note the man said that he had repented to Allah ‘Azza Wa Jalla. A: In this case there are several cases, First: the saheeh of the opinion of the scholars, it is not permissible for a good man to marry an adulterous woman. And it is not permissible for good women to marry adulterous men. If the situation is for the woman to be an adulterer and the adulterous man but has repented, it is necessary to look at the situation of the woman. If the woman has also repented, then the nature that makes the marriage illegitimate (so it is permissible) is lost. But if the woman has not repented, even though the man has repented, it is not permissible to marry her. Second: if the adulteress had repented, if she was not pregnant from the adultery she did, then they were married, this is okay. The contract is valid. However, if they are married while the woman is pregn...

Is marriage required or is it sunnah? Is it sinful for someone who is not married even though he is able to get married? Allah Ta'ala said: وَأَنْكِحُوا الْأَيَامَى مِنْكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِنْ يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ فَضْلِهِ وَاللَّهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ "And marry those who are alone among you, and those who are worthy (mate) of your servants who are men and servants of your godly women. If they are poor God will enable them with His grace. And Allah is the most extensive (His gift) is the Knower "(Surat an-Nur: 32). In this verse there is an order to marry. But the scholars differed on whether marriage was compulsory or the sunnah became 3 opinions: First opinion Madhab Zahiri argued that the law of marriage is compulsory, and the person who is not married is sinful. They postulate with the verse above, which uses the command sentence وَأَنْكِحُوا (and marry off ..) and the command indicates mandatory la...

Q: I noticed that people nowadays are increasing the mahr (dowry) for marriage a great deal.  Is this Sunnah? Does sharee’ah stipulate a certain limit for the mahr that should not be overstepped? A: Praise be to Allaah. Marriage is one of the blessings of Allaah, and one of His signs. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect” [al-Room 30:21] Allaah commanded guardians to arrange marriages for those who are under their care, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): “And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Saalihoon (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allaah will enrich them out of His Bounty....

MARRIAGE IN ISLAM Islam, unlike other religions is a strong advocate of marriage. There is no place for celibacy like, for example the Roman Catholic priests and nuns. The prophet (pbuh) has said "there is no celibacy in Islam. Marriage is a religious duty and is consequently a moral safeguard as well as a social necessity. Islam does not equal celibacy with high "taqwa" / "Iman". The prophet has also said, "Marriage is my tradition who so ever keeps away there from is not from amongst me". Marriage acts as an outlet for sexual needs and regulate it so one does not become a slave to his/ her desires. It is a social necessity because through marriage, families are established and the family is the fundamental unit of our society. Furthermore, marriage is the only legitimate or halal way to indulge in intimacy between a man and a woman. Islam takes a middle of the road position to sexual relations , it neither condemns it like certain reli...