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Marriage sirri or "marriage‘ urfi / zawaj ‘urfi" has two meanings or definitions as they spread in society. 1. Marriage without guardians and witnesses This is NOT legal because the marriage conditions are not fulfilled 2. Marriage by fulfilling the perfect terms and conditions, but not too widely disseminated, only a few people or groups who know and this marriage is not recorded in the KUA SAH's strongest legal opinion, but sinful because it is not obedient to government regulations / waliyul ‘amr The following discussion: 1. Marriage without guardians and witnesses This is NOT SAH because there is no legal requirement for marriage For example, two lovebirds that were not approved by both parents ran together and then married without guardians or without witnesses Marriage is not valid because of marriage there must be a guardian. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, ﻻَ ﻧِﻜَﺎﺡَ ﺇِﻻَّ ﺑِﻮَﻟِﻲٍّ ، ﻭَﺍﻟﺴُّﻠْﻄَﺎﻥُ ﻭَﻟِﻲُّ ﻣَﻦْ ﻻَ ﻭَﻟِﻲَّ ﻟَﻪُ...

Question: A man was given a trial by God in the form of silence and an idiot, but he wanted to get married. How did he do the marriage contract that would be permitted by the Shari'a? Please note this person cannot read and cannot write. Answer: Mute people can get married with understood signals, as he did when he wanted to eat, wanted to drink and all his activities, because the signals understood in these activities occupied a speaking role for him. Wabillahi at-taufiq, washallallahu ‘ala Nabiyyina Muhammadin wa alihi wa shahbihi wasallam.

Connecting a husband and wife's body is charity and is a good rewarded. From Abu Dhar Al-Ghifari, the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, وَفِى بُضْعِ أَحَدِكُمْ صَدَقَةٌ ». قالوا يا رسول الله أيأتى أحدنا شهوته ويكون له فيها أجر قال «أرأيتم لو وضعها فى حرام أكان عليه فيها وزر فكذلك إذا وضعها فى الحلال كان له أجر» "The relationship between you (with your wife or slave) is alms. The friends then asked the Apostle sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, ai O Messenger of Allah, did we come to our wife with lust get reward?’ He replied, ‘Isn't it if you have intercourse with the unclean, you get sin. Therefore if you have sex with the lawful ones, of course you will get a reward. '' [1] An-Nawawi rahimahullah explains that intercourse / jima 'husband and wife provide very many benefits both in the world and in the hereafter. In the hereafter get merit, while in the world get various goodness including goodness of physical and psychological health. He sai...

People say, love is blind. Heart viruses in the name of love turned out to have claimed many victims. We often hear a teenager who is determined to commit suicide because his love is one-sided. The household ark can be destroyed if there is forbidden love in it. There is also love that is both destructive and shameful, which is to love the same sex. Love for others is dominated by lust called al ‘isyq. If lust obeys this love will be entangled in love drunk. This is a disease. If it is not fortified by the right rules of Shari'a, this love can become a forbidden love. Love sickness can affect anyone. Not only young people, even those who are married. Here are 10 therapies for people who are in love. (1). Married If it is possible for people who are drunk to reach their love for love with the provisions of the Shari'a, then this is the most important therapy. The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said: يا معشر الشباب, من استطاع منكم الباءة فليتزوج, فإنه أغض للبصر...